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When the Black Dog’s psychiatrist walked into the room, I became worried that I was going to have to deliver her baby for her. Susan was as pregnant as I have ever seen anyone that wasn’t in a maternity ward. The doctor had lovely straight brown hair left out, slightly freckled skin and that unmistakable pregnant woman glow, along with a cute smile that made me feel very comfortable. If Susan wasn’t so pregnant, I would have felt more comfortable being attracted to her. She was not at all what I was expecting. Since leaving Sally’s office I’d done some reading, and by now I was already confident I was bipolar. It explained so much. But I needed to hear it from Susan and the Black Dog Institute. As it turned out, this was an interview as much as anything else.

Susan: Have you ever had periods of clinical depression for over at least two weeks where you were unable to work?

Ryan: Yes. A number of times.

Susan: When was the last time this happened?

Ryan: Right now.

Susan: What do you experience when you are depressed? What does it feel like?

Ryan: It feels like one of those black Dementor characters from Harry Potter has flown in from Azkaban Prison and sucked out my soul. I don’t want to eat, I can’t sleep, but I can’t get out of bed either. I feel hopeless; I can’t concentrate. It’s like the gears in my mind have ground to a halt and all I want to do is hide away and be a sloth, so that’s generally what I do.

Susan: When you are like this, do you ever have suicidal thoughts?

Ryan: Not that I would act on. I have questioned whether this life thing is worth all the effort. But these days I have a kid who needs me, and I have good memories that give me enough hope to believe things will always get better.

Susan: Do you think you have mood cycles? Do you also feel ups as well as these downs?

Ryan: Yes. Absolutely. Sometimes it’s like my world lights up. I love everyone and I can see beauty in everything around me. I imagine, with extreme clarity, plans for things very big and I put plans in place. I start conversations with strangers. I can’t get enough work; I can’t get enough play. I get ravenous for sex and feel connections with every beautiful woman who passes by. Sometimes I will approach them. Everything is doable and I will try to do everything. The world is sublime and mysterious and laced with colour, and it’s all mine.

Susan: Okay then. Using a scale of 1 to 10, I want you to rate the following statements for their truth – 10 being the highest and 1 the lowest.

Susan: When you feel high do you feel more confident and capable?

Ryan: Yes. 15.

Susan: Do you see things in a new and exciting light?

Ryan: Yes. 10.

Susan: Do you feel very creative with lots of ideas and plans.

Ryan: Yes. Off the chart.

Susan: Do you become over-involved in new plans and projects.

Ryan: Yes. That’s off the chart too.

Susan kept the questions rolling in. Every one of them provided their own answers, so they stood alone as revelations in their own right. I never said no. Not even once.

Do you:

  • Become totally confident everything you do will succeed? 10
  • Feel that things are vivid and crystal clear? 11
  • Spend or wish to spend significant amounts of money? 9
  • Find that your thoughts race? 10
  • Notice lots of coincidences occurring? 9
  • Note that your senses are heightened your emotions intensified? 10
  • Work harder being much more motivated? 10
  • Feel one with the world and nature? 11
  • Feel carefree, not worried about anything? 11
  • Believe that things possess a special meaning? 10
  • Say quite outrageous things? 10
  • Feel “high as a kite” and elated? 10
  • Have much-increased interest in sex, both in thought and action? 11
  • Feel very impatient with people? 10
  • Laugh more and find lots of things funny? 10
  • Read special significance into things? 10
  • Talk over people? 10
  • Have mystical experiences? 11
  • Do fairly outrageous things? 11
  • Take unnecessary risks? 11
  • Sleep less and not feel tired? 10
  • Sing? 9 (not in crowds)
  • Feel irritated and angry? 10

Questions complete, Susan then took a different tack. She asked me about any recent occasions where I felt high and what happened. Scanning back, I homed in on a single memory that would shape the rest of the diagnosis session. There were many times over my life which I could have chosen but this one was recent and unforgettable. I thought Susan might be interested in the day I decided to become a performance clown.

This is an excerpt from Ryan Heffernan’s recently released book “The Clown and I”